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A 
few years ago, 
my son Chris­
tian 
noticed 
the T-shirt I 
was 
wearing 
on my way 
outside 
to 
paint some furniture. It was from 
Bruce Springsteen’s 1980 world con­
cert. Since I had rarely worn it, it was 
in pristine condition. He said the shirt was probably 
worth something and suggested that I change. 
Back in the drawer went that T-shirt until recently 
when my husband Rob and I visited the new Bruce 
Springsteen Center for American Music. I figured, if not 
now, then when? It got us thinking of our Bruce stories. 
Rob and I chatted about them all the way down the Gar­
den State Parkway to Long Branch. 
The first time I heard of Bruce was on my 16th birth­
day when my sister got me the Born to Run album. She 
wasn’t much of a fan but knew he was on the edge of 
becoming big after being featured on the covers of Time 
and Newsweek on Oct. 27, 1975. That album started my 
fandom.
When I went to college in Wheaton, Ill., and other 
students found out I was from New Jersey, one of the first 
questions they’d (always boys) ask me was whether I liked 
Bruce Springsteen. My “yes” elicited a nod of approval.  
I didn’t see Bruce and the E Street Band live until my 
sophomore year, when he launched a tour to promote 
The River. Scheduled to play in Chicago at the Uptown 
Theatre, a small venue with just more than 4,300 seats, 
the only way to get tickets was to sleep out at the box of­
fice. Now, I considered myself a big fan but not enough 
to do this. My friend Drew and a few of his friends did. 
Lucky for me, he asked me to go on the first night.
Because I was the one with the car, I drove us there. 
My only job was to carry Drew’s zoom lens in my purse 
through security while he hid the camera in the crotch 
of his pants. We sat in the first row of the balcony, giv­
ing Drew perfect sightlines for sneaking his photos. My 
souvenir that night was the Bruce Springsteen concert 
T-shirt along with the photos Drew 
processed later. 
The next night, Drew and his 
friends were slated to go to the con­
cert again. They asked me to do them 
a huge favor and lend them my car. I 
was a bit protective of my Ford Pinto 
but felt like it was a way to thank 
Drew for taking me to the concert. 
The guys said they’d have it back to 
me the next morning.
The next morning came and went. Then the after­
noon. By the end of the day, one of them called to tell 
me they had been side-swiped by another car on the way 
home and felt terrible about it. I had to call my father 
and report that the one time I lent out my car it was in 
an accident. He took it pretty well. 
Over the years, I’ve seen Bruce a few more times, 
watched documentaries and read his memoir, but I’ve 
never been that rabid fan needing to see him every time 
he tours. What I’ve always admired about him is that 
he keeps creating, trying his hand at different types of 
music. And he’s loyal to his people and his home turf. I’ll 
admit that I’ve had long stretches when I haven’t listened 
to his music but when I come back to it, I feel a ground­
ing of sorts. After all, the Boss has been accompanying 
me through life for a lot of years. 
At the Bruce Springsteen Center for American Music, 
they told us Bruce would only give his approval for the 
center if his music was presented as a small link in the big 
chain of American musical traditions. It’s not all about 
him, although you can go to the archives room and do 
a deep dive if you’d like. The exhibits were impressive 
and interactive and made for a fun afternoon. I plan to 
go back.
The funny thing about my 1980 T-shirt is that two 
people in the very uncrowded center had the same one. 
A volunteer told me she had given hers to her cousin. As 
I was on my way out, another man walked in wearing his 
shirt. Given its age, he said he’s careful where he wears it. 
I will do the same. 
The Boss, the Accident and the 
T-shirt
My visit to the Bruce Springsteen Center for American Music sparked memories
BY ELLEN DONKER

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